Should we get married early?

Nowadays, conception of young people about love and marriage is very simple. To them, it takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone, a month to get married with someone. So getting married young is more and more popular in our society. In my opinion, this problem needs to be limited. I will analyze some disadvantages that they have to face.

Getting married early means losing some things in your life. First of all is freedom. Instead of going out with friends until mid night, you must stay at home to take care of your own family. Besides, at the weekend you also can not go shopping or go theater for entertaining, etc…All your hobbies have to change. In addition, only yourself, you do anything without giving much thought, but when you get married you have to give careful thought before acting with high responsibility. Then comes the time when will you have to think of buying a house for your own, providing it with furniture, and shopping other things necessary for your daily life. Once you spend all time for your living, you have no time to enjoy the life. The last one is you lose a chance to study further to improve your knowledge. And without further education, rarely do you make progress in your career. Thus, it makes you difficult in bringing up your children very well.

Despite this, getting married soon is also the way make you hurt easily. Because you are so young, you are not fully conscious of the responsibility of love and marriage. When you love, you look life through the rose-tinted-glasses, but only living together, you just realize that it does not come as your expectation. Besides, sometimes your marriage is the result of vague love not a real love. Therefore, you easily come to a divorce - destruction in the family.

However, some people say that getting married early also has advantage such as they no longer have to worry about taking care of their children well because of their old age. When they get older, the children are old enough to earn their own living and at that time the parents can enjoy leisure life beside grandchildren. In one aspect, I agree with this because they can bring up children better when they are strong enough to work. However, by any reason, in reality our life, not many people who get married and have children at their young age can have good condition of living. And the bad effects that they must encounter are not simple. In short, getting married soon is not good for young people.

Marriage is a sacred thing and a necessary stage of one’s life. And anyone always wants to have a happy marriage. To achieve that, we must have stable job and right conscious and an important thing is not getting married early, especially in our country. Because it really hard for young couple to support the children well. If the children do not have well brought up, they will do nothing for family and for society.